This is Mumbai - not Bihar!
Std X prelims are over. It's the last day of school - an emotional moment in the life of a 15 year old. As per tradition, kids are inking farewell messages on each other's uniforms and diaries. They are doing this outside the school - in a building compound.
But the fact that boys and girls 'embraced' each other and wrote messages like 'I love you' and 'I will miss you' apparently irked members of the society where this was happening. They complained to the school authorities, who came rushing and took the kids to the principal's office in a rickshaw.
Principal Ajit Kaul, to punish this 'obscene' behaviour, slapped teenager Bilquis Chhapra. This he admits to - and find nothing wrong with. The girl, on the other hand claims she was dragged by the hair and slapped several times more.
This incident took place in suburban Mumbai - not rural Bihar. It is strange and disturbing to see such a medieval definition of 'obscenity' in a co-ed institution!
Even stranger is the fact that the other parents are siding with the principal and justifying his action! They are demanding Bilquis and her family should apologize. Probably under pressure from the school management.
Thank God the girl's parents appear to be standing by her , at least.
Aapko takleef kya hai?
Honestly I don't see that any offence was committed.
a) The activity took place outside school
b) If the kids had something shady in mind they would have gone to some deserted/ dark corner. Why would they risk being 'caught' hugging in broad daylight in a building compound where some of them lived?
Had girls been writing 'I love you' to each other - no one would have cared. But the fact that boys and girls did so is being made out to be obscene. Hello! 'I love you' does not always mean 'I lust for you' !!
The principal later said he was upset because the students showed 'disrespect to the school uniform'. Well, I remember writing on friends uniforms when we passed out of school - what's the big deal? You're not going to wear it anymore so you write messages and make it something to preserve forever. A sweet memory of your school days.
Lastly, whatever the offence - and I do not even consider this to be one - a school principal is out of bounds when he SLAPS a 15 year old girl.
It is extremely traumatic - and demeaning - for a teenager who has probably never even been slapped by her own parents.
Perhaps he was feeling 'helpless' because school being technically over for the girl he no longer had power over her. The correct thing to do would be to express displeasure and simply summon her parents.
If he really had the students 'best interests' at heart as he claims - at least the man should have spared a thought for the impending board exams. What state of mind will Bilquis have been in then? Would she really had been able to concentrate on her studies??
Were principals born middle-aged?
I am drawing conclusions based on news reports - perhaps there is more to things than meets the eye.
But one thing's for sure, teachers and principals have completely forgotten what it was like to be young. Many of our educators have serious issues - arising from frustration with their low-paid jobs. They are unable to manage their own low self esteem and resultant anger.
They harbor extremely negative perceptions of everyone and everything around them. Especially yeh aajkal ke bachche (kids these days)
Educators prefer to see students at a superficial level and find them 'oversmart' and 'disrespectful'. And instead of winning their hearts and minds by inspiring and stimulating them, they decide it's time to show 'who's the boss'.
All that does is make young people somewhat fear - and mostly jeer. And the disinterest-defiance cycle continues.
P.S. The biggest irony is that the school where the incident occurred is called 'Children Welfare Centre School'. Some welfare!
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